Our In Loving Memory Candle in Remembrance of Angel Children is designed to bring comfort and support to the families who are grieving the loss of a baby or young child, whether through miscarriage, stillbirth, or during early years of life, this candle provides a meditation written in aid to offer support through the loss of a child.

The meditation assists in moments of quiet reflection and emotional healing during a time when it's most needed.  Cherished Candle makes a thoughtful gift that shows your support and lasts much longer than flowers.

It’s important to recognize and honor their loss with the deep care and understanding it deserves, and this condolence gift is a heartfelt way to show your love, compassion, and empathy during such a deeply emotional time.

We also offer the Cherished In Loving Memory Candle created to honor a range of losses beyond child loss, including loved ones and pets.

Cherish can be sent directly to the recipient - simply add a note at checkout and we will write your message on your behalf in a note card, making it a thoughtful and memorable gift.

Finding The Right Words

Expressing sympathy can sometimes be very hard, if you need help with this please see our examples and inspiration here 

Fragrance Experience 

• Scent Profile: The Cherished Candle features the delicate and uplifting aromas of Daphne, Lily of the Valley, and Aromatic Greens. Imagine a soft breeze of velvety floral blooms touched with aromatic greens, layered over soothing vetiver. This soft floral fragrance floats beautifully through the air for hours after being extinguished, creating a serene and comforting atmosphere.

Crystal-Infused Benefits

• Moonstone and Rose Quartz Crystals: These crystals are known for their loving vibrations, which shine light through the darkness and bring comfort in times of grief. A circular pattern of tumbled crystal chips embeds the wax surface, providing a warm and comforting light in acknowledgment of your loss and in honor of passed loved ones. The energetic benefits of these crystals align with the intention and the included affirmations, enhancing the soothing and healing properties of the candle.

Twin Wicks for Enhanced Experience

The Cherished Candle features twin wicks that provide a consistent burn and enhanced fragrance throw, filling your space with its comforting scent.

Guided Meditation

Each candle includes a Candle Meditation, written to help you find moments of peace and reflection. Be intuitively led in how you use this remembrance candle. Light it in remembrance and love, relax with the beautiful scented energies, or follow the included meditation.

Elegant Presentation

• Vessel: White glass with a brushed gold lid.
  • Note About Vessel Color: Due to occasional supply constraints, the white vessel may be substituted with an identical clear glass vessel. Both options maintain the same high quality and elegant design.
• Size: Large - 10.5cm x 9.5cm
• Burn Time: 75 hours
• Packaging: Beautifully presented in an elegant black and white box with gold embossing, wrapped in tissue. Includes a remembrance meditation ritual insert, hand-tied with white satin. Complimentary black and white gift card included; add your personal message in the notes section at checkout.

Hand-Poured in New Zealand

Hand-poured in small batches at Waikuku Beach, NZ, ensuring each candle is made with love and attention to detail. Made with natural soy wax and premium fragrance oils, this candle is phthalate-free and pet-friendly.

High-Quality Ingredients

• Premium Soy Wax: Natural and sustainable, combined with lead-free cotton wicks for a clean burn.
• Unique Fragrance Blends: Crafted to create a luxurious sensory experience.
• Premium Fragrance Oils Infused with Essential Oils: Providing a unique and invigorating scent profile.
• Ethically Sourced Crystals: Carefully selected from a local supplier in New Zealand.
• Vegan, Cruelty-Free, Phthalate-Free, and Petroleum-Free: Ensuring a clean and responsible product.
• New Zealand Made: Handcrafted in small batches for unmatched quality.

Why Choose Cherished?

• Better Than Flowers: Customers have chosen Cherished as a meaningful alternative to flowers, providing lasting comfort and a unique way to remember loved ones.
• Perfect for Funeral Ceremonies: Ideal for lighting at the beginning of a funeral ceremony or as a centerpiece at memorial services.
• Everyday Comfort: Use it daily as a comforting reminder of loved ones, especially on significant dates like birthdays and holidays.

The Cherished In Loving Memory Candle is a heartfelt way to honor those who have passed, providing a comforting presence and a beautiful reminder of the love that remains.

Candle Burning Tips and Safety

Extend the life of your beautiful candles ..heres some safety guidelines to keep your home safe and tips to keep your candles looking gorgeous.

Do not attempt to handle or remove the crystals from the candle when the wax is hot or whilst lit.  As the wax liquifies on the first burn the crystals will gently glide beneath the wax.  Our crystals are carefully placed away from the wick so that they do not effect the burn.  Your candle will burn beautifully all the way to the edge. 

Never leave a lit candle unattended ,  keep away from children, pets curtains and loose fabrics and out of draughts. Avoid being close to fans, air conditioners , heat pumps.  

Do not burn in children's bedrooms.

Always burn on a heat resistant surface ie a coaster.

Do not touch or move a candle while its burning or while the wax is liquified. 

Do not touch or move a candle until its completely cooled.

Don't burn when young children are around.

Never leave a burning candle unattended.

Do not go to sleep whilst a candle it burning.

Don't burn a candle all the way down.  For safety allow 1inch of wax in the container.

1). The first burn is the most important.  Allow the wax to melt to the edges of the vessel every time this avoids tunnelling.   If the candle isn't burnt for long enough it will create a "memory ring" and each subsequent burn it will continue to tunnel down for the rest of its life,  wasting your candles maximum burn time. 

Let your candle cool and reset for about two hours before beginning another burn.

2)  Trim the wick before every burn - before lighting, trim the wick to 1/4 inch using scissors or a wick trimmer for a clean safe burn & increased candle lifespan.

Wicks that are left untrimmed can become to long and can cause uneven burning, it will likely 'mushroom' causing smoking & flaring .  

Your candle will burn up to  25% longer if you trim it after each burn.

2). Allow the wax to melt to the edges of the vessel every time this avoids tunnelling. 

3) Do not burn your candle for longer than 3 hours at a time.

Enjoy your blissful moments in candle light!

FLAT RATE & FAST DELIVERY

At LightSeed we provide Free Shipping NZ Wide for all orders over $135 excluding wholesale.

 All products are made at our Waikuku Beach Studio and are sent via NZ POST COURIERS .   

Target Delivery Times For Canterbury deliveries you'll often receive your order the next business day and for the rest of the South Island you're likely to also receive them the next day, but do allow 2 - 3 days just in case.  North Island, please allow 2-3 Days.  Rural add an additional 2-3 days. 

However no guarantees can be made and there's always a small chance because couriers may face unexpected delays due to weather, airport closures and Cook Strait crossings.  Every order is Tracked and if I have your email address these details are emailed to you, so you can stay updated with the progress of your orders journey until it arrives at your doorstep! :)

Website orders are processed at 7am Weekdays, any orders received after 7am will be processed the follow day.  Orders placed over the weekend will be packaged and sent out on Monday.

NZ orders over $135 receive Free Shipping NZ Wide or a $12.99 flat rate on all other orders within New Zealand.

Australian Shipping is via NZ Post (tracked) and takes 5-13 business days. Costs for orders $0 - $75 is $18 Costs for orders $75 - $150 is $29.90

All New Zealand orders are dispatched from our studio in Christchurch via NZ POST. 

• Orders delivered to Australia will be processed in NZD
• Orders delivered to Australia will not be charged GST
• Your final cost will be displayed on the order confirmation step once an Australian delivery address has been provided.
• Orders are sent signature NOT required, we are not responsible if you're order is stolen. 

We carefully pack your order and dispatch it first thing the morning following your confirmed order.  Orders are generally dispatched prior to 8.45am.

Please note we can not deliver to PO boxes .

Please ensure you have a safe dry spot your courier knows about to keep your parcel safe from sight and wet weather.

We will not be responsible if your courier leaves your parcel on a soggy lawn in the rain where a dog may chew at it!

We do a loving job of packaging your gorgeous candles , and take great care to protect them during transit to ensure they arrive in all their glory for the perfect unboxing experience that you deserve.

Shipping & Returns Policy

It's important to us that you love your candle - if you're not happy then neither are we.  In the rare circumstance you should be unhappy with your order,  we will fully refund or exchange for you. 

The cost of shipping will not be refunded and the refund will be processed once we receive the product.  The product must not have been burnt and must be received back to us within 35 days of your request for a refund.  Please remember it can take some time for your bank or credit card company to process the refund too.

Damages & Issues 

Please inspect your candle when you receive it,  contact us immediately if the item is defective, damaged or if you receive the wrong item, or your just not happy drop us a line so that we can evaluate the issue and make it right.  

The product must not have been burnt and must be received back to us within 7 days of your request for a refund.  

Email us here for any return questions at hello@lightseed.co.nz.

Refunds

We will notify you once we’ve received and inspected your return, and let you know if the refund was approved. If approved, you’ll be automatically refunded on your original payment method.  The cost of shipping will not be refunded and the refund will be processed once we receive the product.  The product must not have been burnt and must be received back to us within 35 days of your request for a refund.  Please remember it can take some time for your bank or credit card company to process the refund too.

The cost of shipping will not be refunded and the refund will be processed once we have received the product . The product must not have been burnt and returned and received back to us within 35 days of purchase. Please pack carefully as it does break our hearts to see our beautiful creations damaged 

*Exceptions / Non-Returnable Items
Unfortunately, we cannot accept returns on sale items or gift cards, or burnt candles.

Candle Ritual Introduction

Your candle has been thoughtfully crafted to honor self-care, inviting you into a meaningful ritual of connecting with your inner self and strengthening your intuition. Each LightSeed candle combines specific crystals and fragrances that are intentionally chosen to align with the candle’s purpose, creating an ideal space for manifesting and supporting your intentions with ease.

Once lit, the candle’s fragrant energies are released, helping to lift your vibration and bring you into a clearer, more peaceful state of mind. Relax and soften your gaze as you watch the flame, allowing yourself to ease into calmness. You might choose to set intentions or simply savor a moment of presence and quiet time.

For those setting intentions or manifesting, find a quiet time when you won’t be interrupted. If you have young children, consider waking up 30 minutes earlier than anyone else to fill your own cup for the day!

Each candle includes invocations or affirmations aligned with its specific purpose. Feel free to use these or create your own intentions. Remember to speak them out loud – this is where the magic truly begins. Speak it, believe it, feel it, and visualize it.

Why Affirmations & Invocations?

Affirmations are powerful statements that plant positive seeds for growth, helping to overcome negative thoughts and empower self-belief and confidence. They cultivate certainty and self-empowerment, much like top athletes who approach competition with unwavering belief in their success.

Invocations, on the other hand, invite specific energies or qualities to support your intention. For example, one of LightSeed’s protection invocations is: “By the light of this flame, I cast an aura of divine protection.” Invocations set the tone of your ritual, calling forward the energy and light you are seeking. Your voice carries the vibration that calls forth this energy.

Opening Space Candle Ritual

Place one hand on your heart and take a deep, slow breath, allowing your body to soften with each inhale.

Light your candle, focusing on the warmth of the flame and letting it symbolize your inner light. As the candle burns, visualize a radiant white light above you, flowing gently down from the cosmos. With each breath, see this light entering through the crown of your head, filling every cell in your body with warmth and clarity as it moves toward your heart space.

Next, draw your attention to the energy rising from the earth. With each inhale, invite this grounding energy to flow through the soles of your feet, feeling its strength and stability as it moves upward, joining with the light within your heart.

As these energies merge in your heart space, feel a profound sense of unity, clarity, and peace expanding within you. Aligned in body, mind, and spirit, you are open to guidance, connected to your inner wisdom, and surrounded by love and protection. This is your sacred space, filled with light and ready for the intentions you are about to set.

Thank the space, the light within, and the intentions ready to unfold. And so it is.

Setting Your Intentions

With the candle lit and energies of light and grounding centered in your heart, you are ready to set your intentions. This is a time to plant seeds for your desires and goals, allowing them to take root in the energy you’ve created.

Clarity - Be Clear with Your Intention

Take a moment to consider what you want to bring into your life. Whether it’s a feeling, an accomplishment, or a transformation, be specific. Focus on a single intention or a set of intentions that deeply resonate with you.

Speak Your Intention Aloud 

Write It Down 

Writing your intention anchors it in the physical world. Use a journal or piece of paper to write down your intention with as much detail as possible. Imagine how it would feel to see this intention manifest. 

Visualize Your Intention Manifested
Close your eyes and picture your intention coming to life. Imagine it with all your senses – see it, feel it, hear it. Allow yourself to fully experience what it would be like to have this intention fulfilled, and let this feeling grow within you.

Trust and Release
When you feel ready, take a deep breath and release any attachment to the outcome. Trust that the energy you’ve set in motion will support the manifestation of your intention. Feel gratitude for this moment, knowing that you’ve planted a seed.

Reflect and Return
Over time, return to your intention and reflect on any signs, shifts, or progress. Let the flame of your candle serve as a reminder of this intention, reigniting your connection whenever needed.